दिप्ती.कथन (Dipti.Kathan)

मी बहुतेक व्हाट्स ऍपवर वाचलं होत. - एखाद्या गोष्टीवर प्रेम असणं आणि ती निव्वळ आवडणं यात फरक तो काय ? उत्तर होत, जेव्हा तुम्ही झाडावरचं गुलाब तोडता आणि त्याचा वास घेता, तेव्हा तुम्हाला ते आवडलेलं असतं पण जेव्हा तुमचं त्याच्यावर प्रेम असत तेव्हा  गुलाबाच्या झाडाला दररोज पाणी घालता. किती सोप्या भाषेत सांगितलं आहे सांगणाऱ्याने. नाही का?  मला ही व्याख्या किंवा हे स्पष्टीकरण खरंच खूप भावलं. आपलं जेव्हा खरंच एखाद्यावर प्रेम असतं तेव्हा आपण त्या गोष्टीची किंवा त्या व्यालतीची विशेष काळजी घेतो. तिला जीवापाड जपतो. तिला कोणत्याही गोष्टीमुळे त्रास तर होणार नाही ना, वेदना तर होणार नाही ना यासाठी आपण सतत तत्पर असतो. त्या व्यक्तीसाठी किंवा त्या गोष्टीसाठी काहीही करायला तयार असतो, अगदी कोणताही त्याग. त्या व्यक्तीचा/ गोष्टीचा आपल्याला ध्यास जडलेला असतो. दिवसरात्र आपण फक्त तिचाच विचार करत असतो.  तिच्याबद्दल स्वप्नरंजन करत असतो. आपलं भविष्य तिच्याबरोबर रंगवत असतो.  पण असं प्रेम आपण कोणावर किंवा कशावर करतो किंवा करायला पाहिजे?  असं प्रेम आपण कोणावरही करू शकतो. आपले आई-बाबा, नातेवाईक, मित्

Aatmaja is very intelligent. She is good academically as well as practically. But she didn't have confidence. Because of low level of confidence, she had lost many opportunities. Once she was asked to anchor one program. But inspite of having good communication skills she rejected the opportunity. How sad! Isn't it. There are many people around us who are potentially very good, capable but because of lacking self confidence,they have messed up with opportunities or have rejected the opportunities. Why? Why don't we believe in us? If you try to go to the depth of this issue, you will find many reasons for this lack of Self confidence. One of the important and crucial factors is the reactions you have been receiving since childhood about your success or failure. There are people who have been told that you are useless, you are dull, you can't do anything, bla bla... Receiving such comments hampers the process of development of Self confidence in children. Now this part

"Do you like to play? Then play. Do you like to sing? Then please go ahead. Do you like to dance. Please do that. Whom are you waiting for? You enjoy cooking? Wow. Kindly do that whenever you can. Do you like to ..... Then please ....." You must be thinking what I am talking about. I am doing nothing but telling you to enjoy your hobbies. Hobby is an action which you like to do or you tend to do when you are free from your obligatory duties. We develop hobbies mostly in our childhood. We adopt hobbies through the means of observation of others or out of our own experiences. It's very much important to persue our hobbies. We should never leave them. Hobbies make you utilise your time. They improve your cognitive and emotional well-being. They let you express yourself in appropriate way. If you can paint or sketch well, this painting or sketching will allow you to express your thoughts, emotions through pictures. If you write, writing will make you express you through w