Only ' You' and not anyone else...
Most of us, we make complaints to others about the people or situations which trouble us, with an unsaid and mostly unacknowledged wish that others will resolve our issues or will take us out of our problems. Its very human, one of the most basic human tendencies. I am not saying its right or wrong but I would definitely say that its unhealthy for our own growth. We should remember one fact that no one else will rescue us from our problems. Only we have to take efforts to get rid of our issues. When we will approach people for help,they will extend the help but we should be in a position to receive the help. We say it in Marathi - "देणारे देतात. घेणाऱ्याने घेतल पाहिजे." Its one of the essential truths of life. Teacher teaches but a student should learn. If he doesn't learn then the teaching is a sheer waste of time,efforts and energy. Isn't it? If you visit even few of most popular theories in Psychology, you will see theorists saying that we should take up charge o