Be your best friend...
Yes... You read it right... Be your best friend... But don't misinterpret by thinking that it's okay to not be with people or to avoid them. What I meant by the title is to be the best friend of yours, to be the best company of yours. Today we see many people around who cling on others, who need company of others to be 'whole'. They just can't imagine their life without some people. Isn't it a kind of dependency? And most of us, we name this 'clinging' as 'love'. Isn't it? Clinging resembles with attachment... And Love is surprisingly different than attachment. When we cling on others, we need them to fulfill our existence. In most of the relationships today, we see that people are attached with each other and may not be really loving each other.(Again let me clarify that I am writing all this as per my concept of Love. So you have whole right to disagree with this.) When we cling on others, I feel that we loose our individuality and get