दिप्ती.कथन (Dipti.Kathan)

Don't we do this most of the time? Yesterday we had fight with our parents or partner or with someone very significant and we keep on thinking about that for next few days. This happens with you right? Don't worry. You are not a single person experiencing this. There are many more like you. Rather, everyone is as same as you in this regard. Feeling happy to know this? Well, wait. Story doesn't stop here. I will try to unfold some aspects about this. Almost everyone can agree to the statement that a human mind is clingy. Intrinsically, we are very much comfortable and habituated with clinging to the things, people, events and even objects. We are too much dependent of our surroundings. We get easily attached with the things, people, events in our life and cling to them. And once we are clung, it becomes difficult for us to get detached from the things we have clung to. This is the reason why some are still sad due to some argument happened many weeks back (here people might

Today morning I received a Hike Daily positive quote. It has been said by Martin Luther King Jr - "If you cant fly then run. If you cant run then walk. If you cant walk then crawl. But whatever you do, you have to keep moving forward". We see many people around us sometimes including us also who easily give up when the seemingly appropriate time has seemingly gone according to us. Many people say, when there was time, we didn't do that and now the time is not appropriate. But is it going to help us in anyway? Not at all. Time is always right and we make it more right or more wrong by our thoughts, emotions and actions. Every person has an ability to succeed but he/she just needs to keep moving ahead. Progress is progress. No matter how long you have come. Even if you have traveled 2 centimetres far from where you were earlier, its a progress. Many people don't acknowledge this seemingly small progress which can be a lot for someone who had been stuck at one place fo

Vanita was being always criticised by her seniors at work. One of them was harsh and one of them was too soft in giving feedback. She never had an issue with accepting feedback but she could not handle the harsh criticism. She always used to feel bad and used to get discouraged but slowly and gradually she she tried to improve her performance and started getting positive comments. She started feeling good. But the story doesn't stop here rather it starts from here. She learned one more thing from these experiences. She gained insight that human mind is so influenced by external environment that it can easily get encouraged or discouraged by mere comments of people. If its getting encouraged, its good but what if its getting discouraged with every critical comment?  Its totally bad and unhealthy. So why to get influenced by external factors. Isn't it a valuable insight gained by Vanita? Has it ever happened with you? You might have come across people who discourage you, blame y