दिप्ती.कथन (Dipti.Kathan)

We had met after a really long time. I was little sad due to certain things in my life. After seeing this,he shared his insights about his life. He has talked and mentally supported many people across the world who had been having some serious life issues. " I have seen so much pain and problems of people that I started feeling that the only goal of the life should be 'being happy'. I learned that its really important to be happy. Be happy anywhere, everywhere. It takes nothing to be happy. I will be happy anywhere. I will be happy when I will be rich and happy even if I am a beggar. I just want to be happy. Do what makes you happy. Decide what you want and focus on that. Nowadays a problem with people is that they are not focused. They want to do everything. They want to try many things at a time and that creates hurdles. So its better to focus on one thing and progress. Happiness is really important. Happiness is within us." His thoughts were eye opener. I relearne

"I started wondering why only I am getting deeply involved in my relationships. I think I was so alone that only I needed people. But now I am feeling that its okay if you have less people in your life but the only need is that they should be genuine. We expect small small things from people and if they are not fulfilled, we get easily hurt. We should stop expecting but in this process we shouldn't they dry. As if we get dry, we can't enjoy life to the fullest. Am I right?" Her last question disturbed my link of listening to her thoughts which were her genuine reflection over her own life. I could just smile. What else I could have said to this little girl who was sharing her insights with me so honestly?  I was highly amazed and happy to see this girl who is considerably younger than me, reflecting over her life so truthfully. I could just smile and she smiled back. Don't we expect small small things from people and get easily hurt if these expectations don