Yes, You Both!

Shraavyaa met Namit a few years back. Until she met him she had some different set of perceptions not only about men but also about many things in life. The moment Namit entered her life, her life was revolutionised... She used to think that every boy is the same... Boys are restless, reckless, flirt, irresponsible, obsessed with physical pleasure and the list would go on... But Namit proved everything wrong. Shraavyaa started finding him very mature, still naughty like a small kid; responsible and morally strong ,still little flexible and accommodative; someone who is appreciative but not flirt; emotional and sensitive, still logical and realistic... What a rare combination! Isn't it? She found  Namit to be flawless... She thought he is just perfect...

Can anyone be so, I mean literally so ideal or complete? Definitely not... Perfection is a myth... Surely Namit also had some flaws. But Shraavyaa has accepted them and him also as her best friend or soulmate... She may or may not get married with him but she has accepted him wholly and completely...

Has it happened with you?

Has it ever happened that you were thinking about someone and his/her name flashes on your mobile screen? Does it happen that you are constantly thinking about someone back of the mind? Do you think about him/her day and night? You may not be meeting each other frequently or also may not be talking with each other on daily or frequent basis but you still feel connected and remembered... You feel like sharing everything, every single moment with him/her. You are emotionally connected but may not be attached or dependent... You pray for each other silently when you look at God... You don't want to get each other  Rather you want to just see each other  happy... You enjoy being with each other, thinking about each other, speaking about each other. You both just love each other...

Yes, you both LOVE each other and still are NOT IN LOVE with each other... What a paradox!

You happened to have changed each other's many thoughts, perceptions and may be strong beliefs too without the knowledge of each other... You both are ordinary people who have created  extraordinary changes in each other's life... You both have acted as a catalyst for each other... You, you just have changed each other without actually changing each other... You both see each other beyond place, time, right and wrong, good and bad,correct and incorrect, life and death, judgements and evaluations... You just be with each other mentally, emotionally, intellectually also without being with each other physically...

Yes you both... You, The Soulmates...

Take care. :)

- Dipti S. A. Shinde

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