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I happened to read one article on Soulmate, some days back. I found it very interesting and insightful. Trying to summarise the same here, in my own words (with my reflection)...
The article says, meeting the soulmate is one of the best things that happen to you. But staying with your soulmate can not be so happy-happy, rather can be a sad part of the life. The writer justifies this thought by explaining that the soulmate enters your life because s/he wants/needs to teach you something. S/he knocks your door because s/he is all set to peel off all those layers of your personality which you have been scared of. S/he makes you aware of your all the flaws and weaknesses. S/he shows you your true picture. S/he prepares you for the best. S/he teaches you endurance, sometimes by allowing you to get angry, by hurting you (intentionally or unintentionally, directly or indirectly), by challenging your self-respect, by threatening your ego, by testing your patience. S/he is planned just to equip you with all those qualities which you should possess as a human being, to shine, to stand out, to be the best.
Do you also have similar experience? Have you also met someone who has done exactly what I have stated above? Yes? Congratulations! You have met your soulmate...
But do these thoughts sound pessimistic? Yes, they sound sad. I agree...
I have heard many people saying that their husband/wife is not their soulmate. Many have also stated that they have not got married to someone whom they love. They are just together and they are enjoying a happy life. Some people believe that falling in love is never practicle but entering into a marriage is and needs to be always practicle. Because love is never a decision but the marriage is. You can't decide whom you can fall in love with but you always need to decide whom you should marry.
By referring to and connecting both of my above mentioned paragraphs, I seriously feel, getting married with a soulmate is never an easy task. It takes courage, patience, sacrifices and many more qualities than these. But that doesn't determine your ability to love or to be loved.
The only point I want to highlight here is - whether you want to stay with your soulmate or not, totally depends on you but never miss any opportunity to learn from them, to receive and absorb teachings from them.
Guys, I totally believe - life, love and learning are nothing but the synonyms.
What are you thinking?
Take care and keep living, loving and learning.
- Dipti S. A. Shinde
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